Urge to share

If there's any kind of magic in this world, it must be in attempt of understanding someone, sharing something.

-from movie "Before Sunrise"

We all have feelings and as a normal human being we all have need to share those things with someone. That someone may be your friend, sister, brother. Maybe be it’s your girlfriend or boyfriends, if you are lucky enough to get one. Even the strongest persons have this urge to share his feelings at some point of time. Many times strength is just pretence. But what about the people who don’t have any such precious relation? They are so busy around themselves or with their career that they don’t have anyone to tell what their problem is. Not only problem, it could be anything like- what I am going to do in this week or which girl I am attracted to in my class and how I am terrified to speak to her, or just a plain discussion on the recent TV series I am watching or book I am reading or what are my weird fetishes.

We normal people generally do these discussions. But what about the group of people I was discussing? This ‘Not having anyone’ syndrome has some critical symptoms like antisocial behavior, doing weird things in middle of night, loudly taking to yourself (even if people noticing you), shouting on phone for no reason, living in the room where full of shit scattered around (I don’t mean literally and even if I do, that doesn’t change anything).

I fell that we should be helping such people to get over their ‘fucked up’ situation. There may be such sociopaths around you.

Everybody act crazy or do some mad stuff sometimes. The word ‘sometimes’ is very important in the previous sentence. If this madness becomes way of life, people call it ‘psychosis’.

So the main point of writing this blog was that- Do share your feelings whenever you need. Make at least one friend with who you can chat about yourself, who is genuinely interested in you. Sometimes hollowness inside our brain gives birth to suicidal ideas. Try fill out this void inside your skull if you have any. And mainly try to be social and care about people around you.

Good luck!!

-Digvijay Patil.